Wedding Crisis

As I announced, our wedding is next July 2011 and I’ve already been dealing with some crisis right when I got back from my vacation. I just want to clarify everything, so this won’t ever happen again.

Not everyone knows how we want our wedding to be, so here’s a good post for you to understand how we want it and not how other people want it.

Wedding Venue & Guests

We like it simple:

Who says 300 people means grand? 300 people does not mean GRAND. It’s just a number. $30k on the venue does not mean GRAND either. We basically put $1000.00 on a  table of 10 people for the food. How is that GRAND? I’d love an explanation to that.

Wedding Dress

My wedding dress:

Wedding dress is a wedding dress. Really don’t know what to say about this. Does a wedding dress need to be respected by other people? Is there even a big deal to it with other people? Does the material of the wedding dress matter to other people?

Do I need to please everyone about what I wear that simple night? You answer it.

Jeweleries

Real Jeweleries:

Definitely not necessary for me. I hardly wear my engagement ring and no I don’t need to upgrade it to a 3carot. Does jewelery make other people give me respect? Is that the meaning of jeweleries?

Bridesmaid Dresses

As in, bridesmaid dress: Which I’m not very sure about this one. Doesn’t the bride pick the dresses for the bridesmaid? Comment below to tell me that.

I guess I should really think of myself before I put other people before me. Trying to organize the dress, the hairpieces and etc. Some people are just asking for too much.

Wedding day: Wedding day is seriously a day I want to get over with. LOL Am I serious? Yes, I’m serious. Why? So I can officially make a baby the next day! I’m joking. Yes, this day cost like a fortune and there’s so much steps in a wedding that need to be followed and plan out right. It’s basically a show to give out to family and friends for them to enjoy. Not really for us.

Meaning of a wedding: It’s our love and commitment.

* Enough said? I don’t even know why I should be dealing with this nonsense to start with. It’s our wedding anyways. If it’s other peoples wedding, I won’t even have a say to it. They do whatever they like because it’s none of my business. I can give suggestions on how they should do it, but not to tell them what to do. Each person has there own limits and for you people, you just cross the line. If you think you warned somebody and know that you might offend them in anyway, than what’s the point of taking the risk? It’s like you know your going to get in trouble for what your saying, but your saying it anyways. Let me put this as an better example for you to understand.

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Me: Hey sweetie, don’t be offended or anything, I just love you, so I got to tell you this. You don’t necessarily have to agree with me.

She: Alright, tell me.

Me: I just think the way your dressing is like a slut.

She: ————- wtf?

Me: ohhh you don’t have to take it personally, it’s just my opinion. If you don’t agree to it, that’ll be fine. I’ll still support you.

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Isn’t that the same process? LOL. Just my point of view, if you can talk to someone like this, mind as well right? Kind of funny BUT I warned in the beginning right?

Anything else more?

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